Kokoro

psych-quotes:

Fighting is part of any relationship. Its not always fun, but making up afterward can be. Here are 10 tips for making up:

 

1.    Apologize if you need to. If you were the one that was in the wrong, apologize to your partner. Seems pretty obvious but lots of people hope that the fight will just blow over without apologizing. Just come out and say it.

2.    Don’t make excuses. Simply apologize and say that you were in the wrong. Don’t go on and on trying to justify why you acted the way you did or you’ll re-open the conversation. You’re trying to put an end to it and move on.

3.    Accept their apology. If they were at fault and apologize to you, simply accept it and forgive the. Don’t re-hash all the reasons why they were wrong – they obviously get it if they’re apologizing.

4.    Put it behind you. Don’t say that you’ve forgiven them but continue to sulk for the rest of the night. Let it be done with and move on.

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savipra:

Have you asked yourself on how you can motivate your “friend” to be “more than friends” with you? To be a boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, or lover? How do you escape the friend zone?

What is the Friend Zone?

For those who don’t know the term, “the friend zone” refers to a situation where one individual in a friendship develops more intense feelings and wants to become “more than friends” with the other person. Most often than not, the other person is unaware of this interest and is contented with the friends-only arrangement. As a result, the one liking the other gets stuck in “the friend zone” can’t transition from “friends” to “more than friends.”

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savipra:

What a beautiful thing it must be, to find someone that will fall in love with your mind. Someone to discern that aesthetic beauty is only a big banner saying “Notice Me,” and it could only go so far because it will soon wither down, but not your mind. Your mind is your greatest asset and your greatest weapon. Time will pass; your mind will not be the same as it once before, for your mind has grown mature. 

And for someone to see the crystallized result of your life’s experiences, and the wisdom you possess inside your mind; wouldn’t you want someone to see that even if you won’t even try. Unlike aesthetic beauty, it asks to be seen, it demands to be paid attention to, but not your mind. Your mind will build you overall, from a young bud now blooming, the scent of your blossoming mind will leave the trails for others to follow unknowingly, and they will be attracted without their consent, because the mind naturally exudes it so. 

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(Source: Savipra)

psych-quotes:

Do you like someone but they have no idea that you even exist? Get him or her to sit up and take notice with these ideas:

1.     Surround yourself with people who make you shine.  When you’re having fun and laughing with your friends, you look your best. They won’t be able to help but notice someone who is confident and fun and they’ll want to get in on the action and get to know you.

2.     Start with small talk. Don’t feel pressured to come up with brilliant conversation topics to wow them with. Start dropping little comments on the weather, the big game, whatever, and do it every time you see them. You’ll get used to casually talking to them, which will take the pressure off and they’ll get to know you as the friendly person who is always ready to chat.

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